How can I find Sober people in my community?

My boyfriend and I have been living a sober lifestyle. We started this recently. We want only the best for everyone in our lives. We decided to start by remodeling ourselves first and our lifestyles. I have gotten over old friends and scenes. Now i just need to find new friends and new scenes. However I am a little lost. Since i have become sober i have been a judgmental *****. I also have become a little self righteous. How do i better my attitude as well?